“I never dreamt of success. I worked for it.”
While the words of renowned businesswoman Estée Lauder may have little to do with schoolboy rugby, they perfectly capture the mindset behind success on the field.
For two rising rugby stars, the hard work they put in now will shape the victories they hope to achieve in the future.
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Caxton Schools spoke to Siphosamandosi Nkosing’phile Cele, 1st XV rugby captain from Saint Stithians, and Simon Mussett, head of school at St John’s College, about what winning means to them and how their school environments have helped shape their understanding of success.
Siphosamandosi Nkosing’phile Cele, 1st XV rugby captain from Saint Stithians.
For Siphosamandosi, winning begins long before stepping onto the field.
“Winning is a mindset, starting with the small details at training, the discipline we show, and the trust we build as a team.
“Winning to me is about growth – learning from your mistakes and pushing one another to new heights. It also means leading by example on and off the field, staying grounded in victory, and respecting others. True winning is knowing that you’ve given your best, every opportunity you’ve had.”
Mussett believes the demanding nature of training is what ultimately builds both strong players and strong teams.
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“The road is never easy and there will be days when it feels like training will never end, but those are the sessions that build character and make stronger players, and, ultimately, a stronger team. The key is to keep showing up and keep pushing.”
Both players believe events such as the Easter Rugby Festivals, hosted by their schools, play a major role in growing the sport and showcasing the high standard of schoolboy rugby. “The love of high school rugby is largely driven by the technical maturity of the players,” said Mussett.
Simon Mussett, head of school at St John’s College.
“After years of development, the skill level at senior high school is high enough to provide genuine entertainment value. This atmosphere transforms school matches into major community events, attracting spectators who are drawn to the quality and intensity of the game.”
Siphosamandosi agreed, adding that rugby’s deep roots in South African culture also plays an important role.
“Rugby is played at a high standard at school level because it’s deeply rooted in South African tradition. There’s strong community support and fierce interschool rivalries, which makes big matches feel like professional games.”He added that rugby offers important life lessons beyond the field.
Siphosamandosi Nkosing’phile Cele, 1st XV rugby captain from Saint Stithians.
“Rugby teaches physical toughness and teamwork. Everyone has a role to play, from the front row to the backs. It builds resilience, leadership, and respect, and teaches values that shape character beyond the game.”
Looking ahead, Siphosamandosi encouraged younger players to make the most of every opportunity.
“My advice would be to use every opportunity to the best of your ability. Focus on the small details and master the fundamentals before trying to develop other parts of your game. Be willing to accept constructive criticism and absorb advice like a sponge. Talent can only take you so far – you need to put in the effort and set high expectations for yourself.”
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