“When a man sleeps with a woman, he tells his friends, ‘Oh, I finished her.’ But if you knew who finished who, you’d stop talking,” Uncle Ebo remarked, suggesting that men often overlook the value they give away during intimacy.
“In any sexual encounter, the winner is not the man; it’s the woman. The man gave his energy, reputation, and opportunities.”
He advised men to maintain their self-respect and avoid reckless behaviour that could damage their reputation. “Understand the need to respect yourself. This can bring you down and make you lose your respect and reputation faster than anything else,” he cautioned.
Uncle Ebo also warned men to be cautious of situations that seem too easy or tempting. Sharing wisdom from a friend, he said, “When you go to the forest and find a table laid, walk away because you don’t know why the table is there.”
“I got married at the age of 29, a virgin. I wasn’t chaste or “holy”, I played around Canaan just hadn’t entered and earlier in my life, I had been addicted to masturbation from age 17 till I broke the addiction at age 21,” he said.